Today I read a blog post that really touched me.
It was by a lovely lady called Debra. Please read it. Pure and Simple; Train Ride.
This simplicity, this sense of wonderment is what fuels me to go to work every day as a Children’s Entertainer. In order to be able to connect with my little clients, the children at the birthday parties I attend, I have to keep reconnecting with the memory and the energy of being a child.
This connection is vital for the correct energy with which to approach young children and not be seen and felt as being patronising. Without sounding a little weird, I don’t entertain as much as just play alongside the children. Their sense of humour is genuinely the same as mine. I delight in word play. I adore surrealism. Most children’s jokes consist of surrealistic concepts, the idea of things being out of context. My funny bone tickles at the concept of putting a banana on your head. ( Come and join the Banana Head Club!) and of course, there is the belly laugh that comes from burps and silly raspberry noises. ( To put it politely).
What other job is it that requires instant trust ? I have to walk into a room full of very young strangers and gain their trust. I’m often only booked for an hour, so I have to win children over almost instantly. Children are unforgiving but honest audiences, if they don’t like you, they walk away.
What is it that creates that bond? It is energy. I have to attune my energy , find my inner child ( that’s not hard) and bring her to the fore. Young children, ( like dogs) inhabit a world of energy, where they judge the vibe . It’s that gut feeling that us grown ups often lose or stop trusting . I’ve done some psychotherapy training and one of the core conditions of trust building is something called Congruency. This simply means that you are on the inside what you appear on the outside: genuine, no nasty surprises. Well folks, what you see on the outside
is what you get on the inside. Am I Diane , the London Children’s Entertainer or am I just
Silly Sausage Diane?
I’m both. It’s compulsory.
- Be Like A Child (marcycalabrese.wordpress.com)
- Through a Child’s Eyes (scenicroadway.wordpress.com)
- Eyes of a Child (smpa.wordpress.com)